Sorry that I mislabelled my questions, I am not confident in my own suggestions and I am embarrassed to post them on here. I understand your point, this is not a place to get your answers. However, if you had perhaps read my response to Celestie, you would understand I already have a second draft of an answer (which has examples), but I am wondering if I am missing the mark a bit and I was seeking others input on the question.
Personally, since I believe this is a forum of people going through similar things ,and attempting to all succeed in the same tough market place, a more considerate delivery tone would be well placed here. However, I am hoping this may just be a misjudgement of your tone, or perhaps a week where I am struggling to believe in myself and I am seeing criticism where there is none...