The competitiveness here is by meant the grades recruitment too, you can't really compare each firm's difficulty level, unless they've publicly disclosed the acceptance rate, strict grades req, etc. I've seen that how the competition is getting fierce, firms hiked their salaries year by year to attract topdogs. Of course from view holistic approach, you can't really compare your GF with him if you only assumed from grades as the sole indicator, and if that means to your GF, DEI play part for her too to achieve gender equality, etc.
I got full rides (fellowship) and by no meant I'm not competitive, yes it was mediocre when I was a sophomore/penultimate bcs I had no work exp, that would be mediocre to apply for a grad job/selective internship. Sorry if my wording sounds too harsh as Ikr y'all in a state of vulnerable and distressed emotion. I've been through all that as I am a recent grad with a similar situation as yours now 😊🙄
Honestly lad it’s clear you’ve got a certain view on this subject and others have a diff view so we should all agree to disagree. Let’s not start riots on the forum and keep it civil. People aren’t in a ‘state of vulnerability and distress’ for expressing a view that differs to yours. It doesn’t cost much to be kind and empathetic.