The Alyssa Liu Mindset that radicalised my brain.
I have come across this amazing US figure skater while watching the Milano Cortina Winter Olympics.
In an interview she said “I love struggling, it makes me feel alive”. This stuck with me because from as long as I could remember I hated struggling, I associated it with failing, doing bad, disappointing myself or not meeting me impossibly hight expectations.
However, I reflected across this cycle I had wins and many losses, the hardest cycle ever but for some strange reason, the cycle I enjoyed the most, learned the most and cried the most lmao.
I think struggling is where growth lies, learning to live with the struggle, embracing it it’s something that I am actively trying to do.
Alysa Liu was not fussed about winning the gold medal, she was more focused on learning to enjoy the process completing detaching it from the outcome.
This is the mindset I would like to adopt, in such a competetive and often cutthroat environment the TC process is, how can someone learn to enjoy the process? I think taking everything as a learning experience so long as I am learning, I am progressing. That’s that. Having a VS or a TC is just the outcome. I am no longer attached to the outcome but rather the experience of writing an application what did I learn, why was I rejected etc. For an AC I am taking everything as learning and experience every second I am there is me gaining something rather than losing. Instead of counting down the errors, replaying the interview answers in my head, trying to remember what were the case study materials, I will reflect on what I actually gained.
Ahaha that’s my little Substack article here


If anyone has any tips on how to enjoy this process rather than being consumed by it, please reply to this thread. Looking to hear your thoughts and feedback!!!!!
Jas

