Thank you, that’s helpfulI wouldn’t label that a “sob story” at all, and I think you’re being overly critical of your performance.
You provided context to the situation and why you resat, which is effective. You didn’t then spiral into how hard your life has been; it sounds like a tiny part of a bigger question. The fact that the interviewer offered their condolences is likely a positive too. If anything, it sounds like you developed a rapport.
I wouldn’t overthink it![]()
For future reference though, would you recommend avoiding personal things like that in an interview or is it fine in the manner I approached it?