TCLA Vacation Scheme Applications Discussion Thread 2025-26

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Everyone needs to stop “assuming PFO”. It’s not beneficial being negative and it’s not over till it’s in your inbox!
I know we should all stay positive, but I like to think of it as "checking myself out early from an uncomfortable hotel room" to protect my energy. This way if the firm actually send a PFO, I can just laugh it off and say "I know, right". But if they progress me to the next stage, I'll have a valid reason to jump around the house.

Might not be related but I think that's why we are all here asking if somebody got a VI or AC. Because if it's possible that I already missed the boat, I'll just tick rejected on my excel sheet and move on.

Anyway, happy Tuesday.
 
I know we should all stay positive, but I like to think of it as "checking myself out early from an uncomfortable hotel room" to protect my energy. This way if the firm actually send a PFO, I can just laugh it off and say "I know, right". But if they progress me to the next stage, I'll have a valid reason to jump around the house.

Might not be related but I think that's why we are all here asking if somebody got a VI or AC. Because if it's possible that I already missed the boat, I'll just tick rejected on my excel sheet and move on.

Anyway, happy Tuesday.
I agree - although I don't ask this on the forum much, but I do it in my head as a way to manage expectations! I still have hope, but it's more like 'Even if I don't get it, it will be okay! I have thought about this as a potential outcome, and I have tried my best, so I can now move on to bigger and better things!' This mindset has helped me tremendously with a lot of my PFOs recently! Last 2 cycles, I was breaking down and crashing out after every rejection and was consistently blaming myself, and it was terrible for my mental health! I hope that everyone remains optimistic, but it's also healthy to get a reality check beforehand from time to time :D Btw, all the best to everyone who is still waiting on Weil! (myself included :p)
 
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