Am sorry to hear that and know what you mean.My post was definitely not a shade to the grad rec team at all. I just felt it not necessary to add the line “you were not a top candidate”. It feels demoralising when it comes from grad rec who have read your app and makes me think if I have what it takes.
They could have just said “we received stronger candidates”. I’m sure they are all great![]()
Some firms need to write their emails better as it can be emotionally draining hearing words like that so I feel your pain.
It is like I would rather be ghosted than hearing evil words like those.
Don't worry too much about it and there is still a long week ahead of you and I hope you receive some good news with apps this week.